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Thursday, January 19, 2012

Longivity of marriage

சங்க கால தலைவன் -தலைவி களவு என்பது ஒரு ஏற்றுகொளபட்ட நிகழ்வாகவே இருந்து வந்திருகிறது. இன்றைய நிலையிலும்கூட இது பொருந்தும். கருத்தொருமித்து மணம் புரியும் இருவரிடைய வேண்டுவதல்லாம் அறிவால் ஒருவர்பால் மற்றொருவர் ஆளபடுவதுதான்.
  • Nature has awarded women an instinct to select best partner for better off springs.  Even though woman selects life partner primarily based on that instinct, her wisdom / knowledge also plays a integrated role.
  • When the HE-man she selected is respecting / recognizing her wisdom and mutually she too respects his wisdom and knowledge there appears no problem among the partners.
  • But if any one of the spouse dominate the other the problem cripples.
  • Apart from mutual sexual attraction, spouse must learn to accommodate/ appreciate  his/her  partners wisdom, courage , decision making capability, ability to lead a decent life.
  • Village girls [boys] or town girls [boys] whoever you marry try to respect / recognize her [his] traits.
  • Life will be smooth for ever. No divorce.

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